We often repeat these questions —
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What do you want to be when you grow up?
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Are you living your best life?
Whether you’re 25 or 65, the same pressures show up — comparison, reinvention, money, confidence, purpose.
I’ve watched women who were just like me get pulled into the perfect trap.
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The perfect selfie.
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The perfect business post.
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The perfect outfit.
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The perfect makeup.
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The perfect lighting.
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The perfect life.
Women start measuring their lives against other women’s highlight reels.
It all looks great on social media — until you realize that everything’s not perfect.
So we do what we’ve been trained to do. We try to “fix it” by attending a conference, hearing the motivational speech, buying the book, meeting the famous actress—
And then — we go home to the same patterns, the same pace, and the same shrinking.
Wanna try something different?
A true relaunch happens when you put yourself in a room where women don’t just talk at you— they talk to you.
They’re available. They’re real. They’re in it with you. They’re not afraid to share life lessons — even when its messy.
That’s what happened for me at ReLaunch to a Rich Life Conference in Scottsdale last year.
When I arrived, I was thinking small. I had shrunk in a previous role. I looked steady on the outside, but in reality, I was off-balance on the inside.
I didn’t need another pep talk. I needed a relaunch — a recalibration, a way to see myself as who I wanted to be — not who I was at the time.
I invested time and money in myself — to become better.
Not because someone handed me a magic formula. I finally gave myself permission to be in the right room, at the right time, with the right women — to remove the mask and take myself seriously again.
I Changed The Game
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I changed how I present myself. I show up with more clarity and confidence—less performing, more leading.
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I re-evaluated my relationship with money. I stopped treating my work like a favor—and started recognizing my value.
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I took a serious look at my relationships. I strengthened my family relationships, expanded my network, and opened the door to new conversations and new collaborations.
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I created opportunities.
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I stopped waiting for things to fall in my lap.
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I started a podcast designed to build consensus in a noisy world.
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I did a complete revamp of my online presence and my business.
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I found my footing and my passion again.
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I committed to moving forward — not sliding to and fro.
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Since then, I’ve proactively picked up speaking engagements, I’m well into podcasting, and I’m in the process of starting not one, but two very different books.
Do What Fuels You
I took a chance and invested in myself — the old me is not the new me.
Here’s my advice for you —
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Choose connection over comparison.
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Don’t attend every large women’s conference just to be there.
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Pick opportunities that fuel you and the sense of purpose you crave.
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Get in rooms that raise your standard — quietly, consistently, honestly.
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Invest in your next identity, not your old story.
Want to Join Me?
This year, I’m going back. I’d love for you to join me for the 2026 ReLaunch to a Rich Life LIVE event, September 17–19, 2026 in Scottsdale, Arizona. (Watch the video preview above for a feel of the experience.)
You’ll meet corporate executives, entrepreneurs, healthcare professionals, non-profit leaders, creatives, and women navigating career transitions.
So — quit apologizing and comparing and get ready to invest time in yourself.
I hope to see you in Scottdale!
You might think I’m paid to promote this conference — I’m not. This post is for you. Realize your potential and invest in yourself. If you have questions for me, post them in the chat.